Predators exist in all groups and the kink community isn’t immune. We do our best to instill values among ourselves so we don’t turn into these monsters, but it also helps to know how to protect yourselves when you encounter one of them.
Do not hesitate to message any of the established community leaders or regulars to verify the claims of people who wish to play with you.
Should an incident arise, please get in touch via [email protected] to file a report and we’ll help you take the appropriate forward steps. Our blacklist is shared with other local kink groups in the hope that this teamwork can help keep us all safer.
References & Recommendations
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Should you or should you not play with a certain kinkster? Sometimes, the people you ask for background checks can’t voice their warnings directly.
A good read, especially for newbies seeking new partners, this article by @Shelby_Cross explains how you can heed the warnings despite those limitations.
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Salon.com: “Women in the bondage and kink scene are speaking out about sexual assaults in the community, and calling for change.”
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“We’d all like to think consent is key in the BDSM scene. But when I was in it, that sadly wasn’t the case.” – Ayako Black
